Tuesday, October 5, 2010

My Facebook Rant

My wife posted something on facebook regarding "Waiting For Superman" and I ended up going on a long winded, unprepared rant from my heart. I thought I would share it. I would love to hear feedback, but understand I ripped this off quickly with no forethough. So there may be some parts I should explain.

I hope this thread hasn't died. While money isn't a reason necessarily, it is an indicator. From what I've read (and heard) the father's income is the best indicator of a student's performance. The higher the income, the higher the success...or chance of success I should say.

Jenn, I think as a nation we need a complete shift in values. Many people like to "say" education is important and teachers are important and should get paid more (while there are plenty who don't) and sports stars should be paid less but then levies aren't passed and sin taxes for new stadiums and arenas are. Full disclosure: I am one of these people.

In addition, schools need more volunteers. I can now speak first hand about failing schools and successful schools with experience in both. The biggest difference I have seen, and the most effective, in my mind, is the support staff and parent involvement. Therefore, as a nation and individually, we need people to get in the schools. Companies need to allow time for employees to get in there and help. I've seen some companies "adopt" schools and send in volunteers. MORE of that is needed.

Parents need to show support of teachers. They need to read with their kids, talk to their kids, respect their kids and demonstrate respect for others in front of their kids BEFORE the kids even start school. They need to involve their kids in decision making around the house. They can do this by counting things, discussing why things happen, discussing what they think will happen. INTERACT with their kids.

Now this is where people will yell at me. This is where I get called fascist and un-pc. Teenagers need to quit having babies. I know I shouldn't jump on people's reproductive rights, but I feel we need to promote birth control and make it accessible to people who can't afford it. We need to make it "cool" to be protected in some form. I do realize many are trying. I really think schools need to be ground zero with this. There are all kinds of male enhancement pills and hair loss pills, but we need a male birth control pill. We need parenting classes. They need to be accessible for everyone.

Men need to man up. I think I have owned up to my manhood so if I sound preachy, deal with it. I am tired of seeing irresponsible men populate this planet and do little if nothing about it. I've said before and I'll say it again, in my experience it is amazing how frequently my good students (in the impoverished areas I have taught) had dads present regularly and those who struggled didn't have dads around at all or routinely. I know, I know I know. There are exceptions. Thank God there are. But it is consistently the case. Men need to step up and either don't have kids or quit being lazy and irresponsible. One or the other.

Rant...over.

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